Romantic getaways in Long Island, NY

Full Guide 2023

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Visit the scenic Long Island and live your dreams of the perfect romantic getaway thanks to its beautiful natural features and rich cultural history. Stroll down Long Island’s white-sand beaches, and explore its picturesque seaside villages and stunning vineyards.

Even though Long Island is ideal for visiting in summer, there is always something to do no matter the season.

Best romantic hotels in Long Island, NY

Mill House Inn

This quaint inn that’s located close to a top-rated beach, features amazing garden views and free private parking.

Its beautiful common invites the guests to sit down, enjoy a sip of wine and cozy up with your loved one by the fireplace. Once you’re all heated up, you can jump right into the inn’s outdoor pool to cool off.

Each room comes equipped with a seating area, a flat-screen TV with cable, and free Wi-Fi.

Guests are welcome to enjoy a continental breakfast that is served daily, freshly made at the bed and breakfast.

Gurney's Star Island Resort & Marina

Situated on Star Island in Lake Montauk is Gurney’s Star Island Resort & Marina.

Its rooms are decorated with a subtle nautical theme in mind that makes the rooms looking fresh and elegant. The wooden terraces in every room give a feeling of proximity to the waterfront that a simple window could never hope to achieve.

The resort boasts a private beach, spa services, three swimming pools, volleyball courts, tennis courts, horseshoe pits, concierge services, and three on-site restaurants.

Guests can explore the surrounding area by renting a boat from the on-site boat rental.

Baron's Cove

 Baron’s Cove is located in Sag Harbor, an area famous for its cycling routes.

Every room is equipped with a flat-screen TV and a refrigerator. The bathrooms come fully furnished with complimentary toiletries and bathrobes. Guests can opt for a room with an ocean view or a garden view.

The hotel features an on-site restaurant that serves fresh American Cuisine for both lunch and dinner.

Guests can choose to go for a swim in the hotel’s outdoor pool or enjoy the ocean on the beach that’s just a stone’s throw from the property.

Boutique hotels for couples in Long Island

The Rockaway Hotel

This gorgeous luxury hotel in Queens, located just a stone’s throw away from the beach, offers an urban beach getaway with views of New York City.

The Rockaway features a heated outdoor swimming pool, an onsite full-service spa with a sauna, and a sun terrace.

The hotel offers the perfect dining option for any occasion, ranging from the signature American cuisine restaurant to a pool bar, a rooftop restaurant and lounge, and a grab & go café.

Haven Montauk

Just a short drive away from several local attractions and a short walk from the bay sits the Haven Montauk.

Its rooms are fitted with a flat-screen TV, a private bathroom and a wardrobe. Guests can opt for a room with an ocean view or with a view of Lake Montauk.

The Haven Montauk boasts a seasonal outdoor pool, a luscious garden with a fire pit and a BBQ area.

For those who wish to bike your way to the surrounding attractions, they can do so by renting one at the on-site bicycle rental service.

The Montauk Beach House

The Montauk Beach House’s rooms come equipped with flat-screen TVs, air-conditioning, and private bathrooms with free toiletries. Guests may opt for a room with a pool view.

While there is a restaurant within walking distance of the hotel, the on-site café and outdoor grill offer a  selection of small plates and sandwiches.

This hotel has a gorgeous outdoor pool and a poolside lounge for its guests to enjoy,  as well as an on-site DJ every weekend.

The Quogue Club

This beautiful manor-style hotel in the village of Quogue is an amazing romantic destination.

Its rooms are fully equipped with a flat-screen TV with cable, and a private bathroom with complimentary bathrobes and toiletries.

There are many activities to enjoy in the area, such as golf or tennis. The area is also very popular for cycling, so feel free to get the most of the hotel’s free use of bicycles.

The Menhaden Hotel

 This beautiful boutique hotel located just off of Hay Beach offers luxury accommodations mixed with coastal small-town charm.

Guests may enjoy panoramic views of the harbor from the hotel’s rooftop featuring a bar, cozy firepits, and lounge seating.

Guests are welcome to use the complimentary bikes to explore Greenport Village and the surrounding area.

Journey East Hampton

The Journey is a quaint little slice of heaven tucked away in East Hampton. While it doesn’t look like anything special, it more than makes up for it with an unbelievably relaxing and romantic atmosphere, from the elegant rooms to the luscious gardens.

All rooms feature a flat-screen TV, a private bathroom and a wardrobe.

The hotel also boasts a big outdoor swimming pool.

Romantic inns in Long Island

The Baker House 1650

Featuring a spa center and sauna, the gorgeous Baker House 1650 makes for a perfect romantic getaway.

Every room is equipped with a top-of-the-line sound system, air-conditioning, minibar, and a private bathroom, while some offer views of the garden or the pool.

Guests are welcome to use the stunning elevated outdoor pool and its lounge area, as well as the heated indoor pool.

Arbor View House Bed and Breakfast

This historic yet upscale B&B located within easy reach of Kontokosta Winery and Island End Golf and Country Club provides its guests with homey accommodations wrapped in luxury amenities.

Each individually decorated room at Arbor View comes equipped with a fireplace, a seating area, a flat-screen TV, and an en suite bathroom.

Guests are welcome to relax on the terrace, read in the library, or indulge in deep-tissue massages, body wraps, or facials. 

The Inn At Fox Hollow Hotel

Located on the North Shore of Long Island, this boutique Woodbury inn located close to all the local attractions features a seemingly endless array of high-end amenities.

Take a dip in the heated outdoor pool, unwind in the hot tub, and stroll through the lush gardens.

The inn serves a daily full American breakfast and boasts an on-site bar and lounge. The on-site award-winning Volpe Restaurant and Lounge serves Italian cuisine for dinner.

Aqualina Inn Montauk

If you want a beach right on the doorstep, this beautiful inn located in the Downtown Historic Montauk Village is a perfect choice!

Its elegant, ocean-inspired rooms boast a flat-screen TV, tea/coffee-making facilities, a minibar, and a private bathroom.

Enjoy the inn’s outdoor heated saltwater swimming pool, as well as the lounge area surrounding it.

The Hedges Inn

Sporting both a luscious garden and a spacious romantic terrace, The Hedges Inn is just a 10-minute walk away from Main Beach in East Hampton. Guests can opt for a short drive to many of the local attractions or grab a bicycle from the on-site bike rental.

The inn’s rooms come equipped with a flat-screen TV, air-conditioning. The private bath comes with luxury toiletries, handmade chocolates, bathrobes and a hairdryer.

The inn also offers a multi-course complimentary breakfast.

The Harborfront Inn

The Harborfront Inn’s refined rooms come equipped with a flat-screen TV with cable, a refrigerator, air-conditioning and a private bathroom equipped with bathrobes and a hairdryer.

For a more romantic experience, choose rooms equipped with a Jacuzzi® tub and a walk-in shower.

This Greenport hotel also boasts an outdoor swimming pool with a lounge area.

The Harbor Rose Bed & Breakfast

Located in Cold Spring Harbor in Huntington, The Harbor Rose Bed & Breakfast offers historic and elegant accommodations featuring water views.

The B&B offers an organic vegan, and gluten-free breakfast free of charge. 

There are several dining options minutes from The Harbor Rose Bed & Breakfast, as well as a variety of outdoor activities such as kayaking, mountain biking, and parasailing.

Romantic hotels for foodies in Long Island

The Maidstone Hotel

This historic yet luxury East Hampton residence offers exceptional, contemporary accommodations.

The Maidstone Hotel boasts an on-site gourmet restaurant featuring regional American cuisine prepared with fresh, locally-grown produce, and with more than 200 different vintage wines, it is sure to make your weekend getaway one to remember.

Guests are welcome to rent a bicycle or grab a yoga mat and work out in the Buddha Garden.

American Beech Hotel

American Beech Hotel is a luxury boutique hotel bookended by the Great Peconic Bay on its south side and the Long Island Sound on the north.

Offering pampering treatments at the onsite spa and delicious meals and drinks at the à la carte restaurant and the cocktail and oyster bar, this hotel is a great spot for a memorable couple’s getaway.

Guests are welcome to rent a bike onsite free of charge.

Garden City Hotel

The Garden City Hotel features a 24-hour fitness center, an indoor pool, a seasonal outdoor dining area, a top-of-the-notch onsite restaurant, and a seasonal patio bar that serves refreshing cocktails.

All rooms come equipped with Italian furniture, plush pillow top mattresses, minibars, and private bathrooms.

The penthouse rooms and suites boast balconies with views of Garden City. 

Unique getaways in Long Island

Oheka Castle Hotel & Estate

Book a stay at Oheka Castle, the most sought-after romantic getaway on Long Island, and feel like royalty.

The prize jewel of historic hotels on Long Island, this magnificent Gold Coast Mansion, boasts 32 uniquely designed luxurious guestrooms and suites.

Wine and dine in authentic European ambiance and entice your senses at the onsite restaurant, enjoy a book in the stately library, stroll the Formal Gardens, indulge in in-room spa treatments, or work out at the fitness center.

The Mansion at Glen Cove

The brick 2-story Georgian mansion nestled on 55 sprawling acres is mostly known for being the setting of F. Scott Fitzgerald’s iconic book, The Great Gatsby.

The Mansion offers accommodations set in idyllic surroundings with views of Long Island Sound.

Grab a bite to eat at the restaurant, unwind at the spa and sauna, and stroll along the property’s meticulously groomed lawns.

Montauk Manor

Montauk Manor boasts both an indoor and an outdoor swimming pool, various spa treatments at the local wellness center, as well as multiple tennis courts.

Its individually decorated rooms come equipped with flat-screen TVs, air-conditioning, a full kitchen, and a private bathroom.

Guests can choose to take part in a wide range of activities on-site or in the surrounding area, such as horseback riding, fishing, and hiking.

Romantic things to do in Long Island

Once you have chosen the perfect hotel for your romantic getaway, let’s find a complementary thing to do in Long Island so you can get the most out of your couple’s vacation.

New Vine Wine Tours

Round out your trip by visiting this historic family-owned vineyard specializing in winery, brewery and distillery tour experiences throughout the North Fork.

Enjoy a local wine tasting while the guide teaches you about winemaking and wine appreciation and stroll down the property for a rustic, romantic date with your significant other.

Cooper's Beach

Cooper’s Beach is considered a Long Island gem. Its soft sand and crystal-clear blue water make for a perfectly relaxing day with your date. This long beach makes a perfect spot for long walks as the sun sets.

There are umbrellas and beach chairs to rent for those who don’t feel like laying down in the sand. 

John W. Engeman Theater

This newly renovated theater in Northport is Long Island’s only year-round professional theater. 

John W. Engeman Theater features stadium-style seating, state-of-the-art lighting and sound, and a full orchestra pit.

And since the Theater casts its actors directly from the Broadway talent pool, you’re guaranteed to be in for quite the show.

Mashomack Preserve

Mashomack is a beautiful preserve spanning over 2350 acres, located just 90 miles away from NYC.

Take in the natural beauty of one of the richest habitats in the Northeastern United States as you explore its creeks, woodland, and fields.

If you’re looking for a more peaceful destination, choose Mashomack preserve and become one with nature.

Coney Island

What is there to say about this world-famous boardwalk park?

Surrounded by beaches, Coney Island is the perfect way to end your beach day by taking a ride on one of its many roller coasters or get your partner that stuff bear that they’ve been eyeing.

Whatever your ride preference, Coney Island is sure to have you covered. Home to famous rides like the Cyclone Roller Coaster, the Wonder Wheel and the Parachute Jump, there are options for everybody.

Planting Fields Arboretum State Historic Park

Enjoy a day out in the sun surrounded by flowers and trees in this luscious State Park.

The gorgeous scenery is sure to set the mood for you and your partner with its beautiful gardens in bloom, perfect for a photo shoot to remember the occasion.

Once you’re done with the outside area step inside the historic Coe Hall and enjoy the Park’s history.

Spa Hotels in Long Island

More romantic getaways close to Long Island

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